Say it and Share it! [dec 3rd, 2009 >>11:18am] sextips [lang_ea] Question: What's your favorite time period that you find really sexy? The Iron Age era? Roman era? The Middle Ages? The Rennaissance? Or even the era of musketeers, wimmin of giant wigs and panniers, or men in top hats? 16 foreign languages

We Vibe [dec 2nd, 2009 >>8:37pm] sextips [dotcomartguy] ( You are about to view content that may not be appropriate for minors. ) 1 foreign languages

the ticklish penis, and what to do about it. [dec 1st, 2009 >>10:00am] sextips [natane] the guy i am currently with has a ticklish penis/groin area. in the sense that during oral, he's likely to start giggling randomly and grab my head and pull me off. PIV isn't a problem, but i can tickle him with my hand too sometimes. i've tried rougher touches/licks/sucking, but he enjoys the gentle ones (which then make him giggle and pull my head off/grab my hand). it's definitely ticklish, as opposed to over-sensation, if that makes sense. he's ticklish there before orgasm, after, hard, soft, through underwear, etc. this is, in fact, the only part of his body that he can always be tickled on, leaving me (ticklish all over) at a severe disadvantage. i actually don't mind it, so i guess i'm not really posting with a problem. just looking for similar stories/opinions. 4 foreign languages

Question [dec 1st, 2009 >>3:00pm] sextips [kinky_carter] Looking for some tips. First off does anyone know where I can find a catholic school girl uniform, you know those guys that love 'em. And where can I find a aphrodisiac that actually works? I tried this Spanish fly that I ordered from Amazon.com and it did nothing for me. 11 foreign languages

enemas [nov 30th, 2009 >>6:50pm] sextips [lisaownsall] I know that a lot of people use enemas prior to having anal sex to remove feces. I have never used one before but plan on having anal sex (for my 3rd time) soon, and wanted to use one. My question is; how long prior to having anal sex are you supposed to use one? an hour before? a few hours before? a day before? i want to clean myself out so it will be less messy, please help! thank you :) 15 foreign languages

Relationship/Sex advice? [nov 30th, 2009 >>12:57am] sextips [leedlekay] Hi there, I looked through the memories a bit and couldn't really find anything that could explain what I'm going through so...here goes. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 and half years and we've been sexually active with each other for 2 years. We are very close and our sex life is great--up until recent. When we first started having sex we were both virgins and he had difficulty staying hard 100% of the time, which was okay because he was new to it. After a while we got over that bridge and started learning how to please one another. We finally got the hang of it and sex was amazing. In the past five months, we found the right position for us to both orgasm during PIV sex, so that is what we have been doing a lot of. Now, my question: Two nights ago, his parents were out of town and we had the house to ourselves. I made no insinuations to have sex but figured we would probably end up doing it. He then came onto me and we had sex for less than 3 minutes until he became soft like he used to when we first started dating. He got embarrassed and told me that he felt pressured by me to have sex with him. I assume this is because I have a higher sex drive than he does. I like to have sex about 4-5 times a week with him. I let it go and tried to forget about. Well the next night we got into foreplay (which I need a lot of to really get into it) and he could not get an erection. He was hard up until I started giving him a BJ and then he just lost it and tried to force having sex with me. He pretty much blamed it on the fact that I need a lot of foreplay. As he was driving me home he told me he didn't want to have sex with me until he 'was ready.' I feel almost hurt because I want to please my boyfriend and obviously what I'm doing is not working. Do you think maybe something could be up? Like he's not interested? A couple months ago he started flirting with another girl and I found out...could that have something to do with it? I just simply don't understand because we've had two awesome years of sex and all of a sudden he thinks our sex is 'too boring' and that he's 'not ready.' Does that make any sense to any of you? I would like to figure this out and any advice is greatly appreciated! 25 foreign languages

[nov 27th, 2009 >>11:54pm] sextips [tiamarie33] I'm in a sexual relationship with a guy with whom I have phenomenal sexual chemistry with. He is very giving and always satisfies me. He pulls my hair when I ask him too, and always asks me what I want. I would like for him to hold me down sometimes, and slap me in the face a little, but I am terrified he might think that it's strange or a turnoff. Do you think I should just ask him to? How would I go about this?? 15 foreign languages

[nov 27th, 2009 >>8:29am] sextips [goodeyessniper] Are there any tips or tricks to not having cum just..leak out of my vagina when my boyfriend comes in me? It always gets on the bed or I end up queefing or something equally unsexy. 30 foreign languages

Guidance during sex?!? [nov 24th, 2009 >>1:08am] sextips [a_strange_boy] Okay so I have a couple of questions (that goes unanswered by the FAQs) probably more applicable to people who aren't in a LTR, however if you are and you have something to contribute, then obviously feel-free! :-) If you're sleeping someone for the first time, would you find it to be a turn off if they asked for guidance in any way?! And by "guidance" I mean questions like "Do you like that?" or "What do you want me to do?" or "How do you want me to get you off?" or "Would you like me to suck harder?" etc. Do you automatically give some form of guidance when you're sleeping with someone new?! For instance, my penis is extremely insensitive, so I like a bit of teeth when someone goes down on me...now a far as I'm aware teeth is generally considered a big NO NO in sex. So I'd always tell a guy when he's sucking me off "Use some teeth!" Also, I'm fairly noisy in bed, so I always make some agreeable sound when he does something I like. What do you do, if anything, to give guidance?! What do you find to be the most subtle, but effective, way of getting someone to help you get whatcha want?! Any information/opinions on this would be helpful. I'm focusing mostly on the beginning of a sexual relationship, however it would be interesting to know about people who've spent a long time with the one person!? Do you just come right out and say whatever you're thinking....or do you, as a couple, come up with your own signals?! Thanks in advance! 19 foreign languages

[nov 23rd, 2009 >>2:06pm] sextips [crispyrounds] So, i've been dating this man for 5 months. he's terrific. first of all, i'm a 20 year old woman, he's 40. alright so here goes, there's two parts. side note: he's naturally less affectionate than i am. this had been hurting me because it made me feel undesirable, unloved, etc. i finally told him about it, and he was great and understanding, and changed his behavior in a matter of minutes. he just hadn't realized that it was as important to me as it was because i never communicated it to him until this past weekend. communication rocks, and he certainly met me more than halfway with this issue right away. part one- he tends to cum early and often cums before he's even inside of me. when we have sex he often stops in the middle many times to stop himself from cumming and try to pace himself. i asked him if he still enjoys sex with me because of this problem and he said "yes and no." he likes having sex with me, but it frustrates him to not just go with the flow and be in the moment because hes constantly trying to stop himself from cumming early. part two- he has a lower sex drive than i do. i'm guessing because of his age and also because of a medical condition he has that requires him to take a lot of medication and also makes him tired often. i expressed this to him, that i wished we had more sex. he told me he'd do whatever i wanted him to do, perhaps take supplements, to increase his libido or even go to a sex therapist to figure something out. so, questions: 1) what has worked out the best for you guys that have had problems with premature ejaculation? is it even fixable? -sigh- 2) is there anything that can increase male sex drive (such as supplements or anything else you can think of)? i know viagra isn't good for you, but does it increase horniness or does it only help with erectile dysfunction? because he doesnt have problems with getting it up. any other general suggestions? thanks :) 8 foreign languages

Partner's turn ons [nov 23rd, 2009 >>12:48pm] sextips [ecoutez_merci] So.... What turns your partner on in bed? Just a personal thing, I'm curious. The more detailed, the better. :) 24 foreign languages

Agressive persona? [nov 22nd, 2009 >>1:11pm] sextips [hearts4sale] So this person and I have been together on and off for almost two years now. Not “exclusive” at the moment, and I’m not sure why that’s relevant in any way, but I’m a little uncertain with the way to conduct these “questions”. Anyways! To put it in blatant terms, we have a very strong love/hate relationship. He is the most influential person I have ever met but/and (I feel if I use but it implies the following is a problem) we are very, very different in our perspectives which has caused a lot of tension in our relationship before. However, we acknowledge there is some undeniable bond that keeps bringing us back together in some way. Yeahyeahyeah… during sex he is usually (and I use this term loosely) dominate and I submissive. I enjoy being strangled during intercourse (har har) and he was uneasy about the idea at first but loves it now. I know for a fact this goes beyond sexual pleasure, in the sense he probably thinks sometimes, “damn, I wish I was strangling her”. Okay, so that’s not what I think he is word for word thinking, but what I mean to say it’s a good way for him to vent his anger. He is a very aggressive person outside of the bedroom and I’m fully aware of this. (No, he’s not abusive towards me in any way). Recently he said he wants to tie me up and have me squirm around while he does things to me. Now I’m all for this, I’m practically ready to forget about my thesis and drive over right now. FUNDAMENTAL QUESTION: Is it unusual to participate in sexual scenarios knowing the person is vicariously living through the act of that sexual persona to act out what they would probably like to do to you in real life at times? Most wordy question ever, I realize, but I’m sure you guys could pose it better and then answer. Personally, I could care less. I’m just interested in what other people have to say 14 foreign languages

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